What Should I Do to Get My Ex Back?
Anytime that you breakup with someone you love, you can go through a lot of painful emotions. You can feel sad, depressed and hurt, and of course you miss them and long to be with them. “What should I do to get my ex back?” becomes a question you constantly ask yourself.
If you’re preoccupied with your lost relationship, wondering “what should I do to get my ex back?” then try following this simple advice. You will give yourself the best chance of getting back together with your love.
Above all do not play games with your ex. This is a very important rule, but unfortunately many people resort to this during breakups because it gives them a sense of power. Many times if you feel that you can make your ex believe that you are really upset, or make them believe that you really do not care at all, this is manipulation. It might feel good to have that power at that time, but in the long run, you are really hurting what we are working so hard to fix.
Some people play games where they pretend to be dating someone else, or they pretend to be in love with someone else. This is a strategy to make the ex jealous. While it does work sometimes, other times it makes the breakup permanent if it backfires.
Trying to get back at your ex or trying to make your ex jealous is not a good strategy In fact, This is one of the worst things that you can possibly do, because it will show your ex that they should simply move on because you already have.
While you do want your ex to see that you are doing ok, you do not want it to inspire them to completely move on if your ideal situation is to get back together. Let your ex see how strong and self confident you are, and they will feel more inspired to get back together with you.
Don’t be mean or spiteful. This holds true in any situation or any relationship, but sometimes the anger around a breakup makes us act more cruelly than we normally would. Even if you’re hurt, the fact that you want to know, ‘What should I do to get my ex back?” shows that you’re ready to forgive that person. If you could not, you wouldn’t want your ex back, you would be glad that it was over.
Now, think about how you have been conducting yourself. If you were your ex, would you look forward to spending time with you or talking to you? Or would you dread each time that you talked? Do you shout, nag or try to place blame a lot? Even if you feel like arguing, try not too. Work very hard at controlling your anger and hurt, and being a person that they can miss.
“What should I do to get my ex back?” Be on your best behavior and make your ex remember what attracted them to you in the first place. They will remember your good points and will miss them. Then you will have a better chance of being able to get back together with your ex.
These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back. They are only the initial steps that I followed when I lost my love. And honestly these are not my original ideas. I turned to T 'Dub' Jackson when I had no idea of how to get my love back.
T 'Dub' authored a simple and down to earth step by step plan called "The Magic Of Making Up". And you know it worked like magic for us. Now we are more in love than ever.
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Good Luck and Take Care of Yourself,
- Lacey
